You could ask my hubby what attracted him when he first saw me and what did he notice first. Answering anything else than the usual T&A (Tits and Ass, if you didn’t know) that you might collect from the majority of the masculine population is a real challenge, and you will discern an almost physical convulsion of his body trying to pass beyond his sex oriented mind thinking of the breast or the butt and come out with something like “Her cute ankles…”
I’m pretty sure that during our first ten years of marriage, he didn’t even notice I had a scar on my left elbow.
The truth is that men see a woman’s body in 3 different manners and they certainly don’t have anything to do with how YOU see your body.
1. They notice what shapes you as a WOMAN
It means that the first things about your body men perceive right away are the ones that distinguish you as woman. And these are your butt, your chest, your hips, your curves and even how you walk. For any given heterosexual man, it is almost impossible to discern or detect anything before they analyzed the elements of a female’s body that define and classify her as a woman.
So what is not included in this list of body parts are your cellulite, your stretch marks or your arm flaps.
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2. They see the details that make you unique
For example they think your chipped tooth is kind of cute. Your belly, even if they can’t see it because too close to your ass they still think it’s the cutest around. You hate your lips because they are too thin but in fact when guys see your lips they think of them on their body and certainly not that they are too thin. TRUE.
When a man notices something in your body that you consider as a repulsive factor (note that guys will never mention it this way), he will see it as a part that represents you in a uniquely way. And because you are the object of his obsession, that part of your body is as welcome as the other ones.
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3. They record your obsessional fixed ideas
This section is a sensitive part as it can boost or destroy a relationship.
When a guy listens to you constantly complaining about your body, his eagerness to savor and adore you will slowly disintegrate. He collects your attitude as a rejection. What crosses his mind is, “I could caress her body all day long” and you are saying, “I’m too flaccid”. You are not only taking yourself apart, you are also annihilating his passion, his attention and his excitement for you.
But this can work in the opposite way also. Exhibit your pedicure, expose your arms, put that sexy dress and harass him relentlessly with this body he unconditionally loves.
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